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Wednesday, February 28, 2018

From My Uncle Ron - A Technical Manual and Dropped Teeth


This is a family story from my uncle Ronald Frye (my mother Linda's brother) that has some great lessons. This took place around 1997 when uncle Ron worked at the Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory in Livermore, California, a nuclear weapons research facility. Below are my uncle's own words from his autobiography about an inspiring event that took place while he was on the job:

Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory
"During my last years at the Lawrence Livermore National Laboratory, in a job with the Procurement Department, any opportunity that came along which was in any way remotely associated with something technical, I snatched up. Such was the case with a problem that had been plaguing the Procurement Department for years... that of creating some sort of computer-based system for evaluating companies with whom the lab was doing business. Now for one reason or another, Procurement just couldn't seem to get its act together to solve this problem. Attempts were made over the years, but a satisfactory solution was never realized.

"So, to make a long story short, I created a database, which was based on File Maker Pro, to evaluate those companies. I programmed this application so that quality assurance data would automatically be gathered from some of the lab's other computers, and based on that data a letter grade would be assigned to each company, much like the grading system used in our school system.

"Being in the Quality Assurance group of Procurement, and in a position I thought ideal for solving this problem – after all, I was evaluating the quality assurance programs of companies with whom we were doing business – I started to think about it, and act on it, in my spare time, usually during lunch hour.

"Now the version of File Maker Pro I was using was not designed to plot graphs of data, but I wanted that feature to be a part of the program. Something in the back of my mind told me it could be done, albeit through a "back-door" approach. During one of those working lunchtimes, I closed the door to my office, got down on my knees, and asked the Lord for help to solve this problem. Very clearly, the answer came to my mind: "You will find the answer on page 'xx' of the technical manual." Sure enough, turning to that page revealed what could be done to solve this problem.

My Uncle Ronald Frye
May 1998
"Shortly thereafter, the project was completed, and I showed it to my boss, who contacted his boss and urged him to come see what I had done. Not only did he come, but many other Procurement managers as well. The word spread like wildfire! They about "dropped their teeth" when they saw what I had done in my spare time, something their high-paid software engineers had been unable to do for years. I guess they were really impressed, because I received an award and a raise at our next big division meeting.

"Now how would the Holy Spirit [of God] know about the contents of a software technical manual? I don't know. But it just goes to show that the scriptures are correct when they said the Spirit [of God] can help us know the truth of ALL things."

Thursday, February 1, 2018

My in-laws Edmundo and Fátima - A Sunday Not to Forget

It has been said that the gate of history turns on small hinges, and so do people's lives. These small hinges, or the small decisions individuals make daily, can end up having large effects with the passing of time. Such was the case with my father-in-law and mother-in-law, Edmundo and Fátima Leite, with a decision made many years ago on a particular Sunday.

Fátima & Edmundo Leite
Children: Ricardo and Lia
June 1981 - "Festa Junina"
Nearly four decades ago in Brazil, Edmundo converted to the church his wife Fátima belonged to, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (“Mormon church”). Edmundo was very excited and happy to be a new member, and he loved the missionaries who taught and baptized him. He developed a strong friendship with the missionaries and thoroughly enjoyed being warmly greeted at church by them.

One day at church, Edmundo met a new set of missionaries that had arrived. He learned the ones that helped baptized him were no longer in the area. This greatly dampened his enthusiasm. Edmundo didn't end up feeling the same friendship or affection for the new missionaries – they just weren't the same and weren't as warm or friendly. For that, Edmundo didn't want to go to church anymore and stopped going altogether. Fátima, however, continued attending every so often.

Edmundo soon found himself creating excuses why he wouldn't go to church on Sundays. He would talk to Fátima on Sundays in a manner such as:

Oh, we need to go to the beach... today is Sunday.”

Want to go to a churrasco?” [Brazilian barbeque]

“Do you want to go to a soccer game?”

He was also invited by others to participate in such things on Sundays, particularly during church hours, and he would accept the invitations and go.

Some time passed, and on a certain Sunday, Fátima spoke with Edmundo and said, “Today is Sunday. Let's go to church.” Edmundo responded in the negative. “No. We're not going to church. Let's go somewhere else. Let's go to the beach!”

Fátima sternly replied, “You can go to your beach, your churrasco, your soccer game, to wherever you want go to. . . but me and my children, we are going to church!!”

Edmundo was shocked. Fátima had never addressed him in such a manner with such vigor and firmness. He watched her gather the kids and things until her arms were full. He remained silent. Out the door Fátima went carrying a diaper bag, a bag for babies' bottles, scriptures, and one of the children in arm. She took the second child by the hand to walk along side of her. Down the stairs they went, and off they were to catch a bus.

Edmundo continued watching from a window and saw Fátima board the bus with kids and bags in hand. The bus was also full of people (mostly men) dressed in shorts and without shirts going to a soccer game. The bus then drove away.

Edmundo remained standing at the window pondering about the situation. He thought to himself, “You are such a coward. How can you say you love your wife and kids, yet leave your family in a complicated situation like this? You are not worth a thing.”

Fátima (4th from the right), Edmundo (3rd from the right)
At church in Belém, Brazil, ~1982 
From that day onward, Edmundo resolved he would never miss accompanying his family to church due to his own choice. He is certain today that if Fátima had said to him on that particular Sunday, “Yes, let's go to the soccer game,” or to go anywhere else except the church, they would both not be attending church at the present time. Fátima's choice to attend church, alone with the children in spite of the difficulty, was a life changing experience for Edmundo.

The decision to keep the sabbath day holy and attend church that day, the “small hinge,” has had a tremendously positive influence through time and also far-reaching effects for good. Edmundo believes that his and Fátima's lives, along with the lives of his children and grandchildren, would probably not be what they have become today had Fátima chosen not to go to church that day.

Fátima is also grateful for the way she acted that Sunday. She believes that if she didn't remain firm in her conviction, it's possible she and Edmundo would not have even stayed together as a married couple. Fátima has said, “The church helps us in all things … and helps us overcome challenges and difficulties.”

Fátima and Edmundo Leite
At church in Utah, 2017
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Adaption by Tom Hartley, son-in-law to Edmundo and Fátima Leite. Based on a video interview with Fátima and Edmundo completed on July 12, 2017 by their daughter Juliana Leite Hartley. Additional consultation done with Juliana to clarify details. The original interview, in Portuguese, is located here: https://youtu.be/mHKRB4NY9uc